"it shouldn't hurt to be a CHILD."

Assalamualaikum... syukur ke hadrat Illahi kerana kita masih diberi peluang untuk hidup dan tingkatkan amalan kita di dunia ni kepada-Nya.. so,, harap2 semua sihat la ye :)

nak kongsi,, ade satu perkara yg sye sangat concern dari dulu lagi.. maybe sbb time cuti pjg ni sye duk umah je kan,, plus jadi bibik lak tu,, jage ank buah 3 org.. hmm,, mmg xdapat nk nafikan la bdak2 zaman skarang ni semuanye hyperaktif, lompat sane, lompat sini, panjat sane sini, jerit sane sini,, fuhh! sabar je la melayan ye =.=' 

Nowadays, bnyak kes2 child abuse yg kita dgr kat kaca tv, radio, akhbar, dan mcm2  lagi la... masyaAllah,, kejamnye perbuatan tu.. so, utk fahami kes ni lagi, i make some research..

According to Richard A. Wright and Mitchell Miller,

"an abused or neglected child is one whose physical or mental health or welfare is harmed or threatened with harm by acts of omission or commission on the part of his or her parent or other persons responsible for the child welfare"

sbenarnye, pembuatnye adalah dari kalangan ahli keluarga kanak2 tu sdiri: parents, brother, sister, uncle, auntie.

mangsenye kanak2 tu la..

usually, people x tau mcm mane bentuk child abuse tu or penindasan terhadap knak2,, sbb diorang sdri pn kadang2 xsedar.. bnyak bentuk2 child abuse sbenarnye.. antaranye:

1) gagal penuhi keperluan kanak2 tu; pakaian, makanan, tmpat tinggal (jgn ingat bnde ni remeh je tau)

2) pukul kanak2; sampai tinggalkan kesan,, bukan tujuan untuk memberi pengajaran, tapi kesakitan

3) pendedahan seksual; mendedahkan video2 lucah kpd knak2,, mendera mereka secara seksual

4) merampas hak kanak2; mengambil brg2 tanpa kehendak mereka 

5) dan banyak lagi

The Prophet, (s.a.w.s- peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, "Abusing a Muslim is a sin, and killing him is disbelief." (Bukhari and Muslim)

so, sbagai org yg prihatin, jalankan tanggungjawab kita sbgai seseorg yg mempunyai rasa perikemanusiaan; prevent it,, stop it! we can join any campaign to stop it.. sayangilah mereka,, jika ade kes sebegini laporlah pada pihak yg betul :)

The Prophet said: "When the people see a cruel person is committing aggression, and do not prevent him, it is likely that Allah would afflect them with His chastisement." (Abu Dawud, Tirmithi, An-Nisaa'i)

jangan sampai terlambat cause "we can never turn back the pages of time, though we may wish to relieve a happy moment, a say goodbye just one last time, we never can, because the sands of time continue to fall, and we can't turn the hourglass over"